There's some hanky panky going on
My husband is in a band. They often make long trips in a van. Every band member
is married except for the guitar player. The guitar player's sister often
accompanies the band when they travel in the van. Often, myself and the other
two wives cannot go because we have kids and cannot get a babysitter. Last
Friday, the band, the guitar player's sister, the guitar player's girlfriend and
I went up to Chicago for them to play (about a 4 hour ride). I don't have a
problem with her going except there was some hanky panky going on with one of
the other married band members and the guitar player's sister and he even told
me so. They did not have sex, but I'm almost positive there was kissing
involved. The guitar player's sister knows that he is married. She even knows
his wife! Personally, I think she should have her butt kicked!!
I am friends with his wife as I am with all of
the band member's wives. I don't know if I should tell her what happened. I know
that if something like that happened with my husband I would want to know but I
don't want to cause trouble and I believe that the married band member who was
involved in the hanky panky will lie and tell her that nothing happened. I'm
afraid that she will then be mad at me. Also, I know that the guitar player's
sister will ride with them again (probably several times). I'm afraid that
something more will happen between the married band member and her. I don't want
that to happen to his wife. Don't know what to do!
Answer
What you need to do is mind yours. You
said the guitar player's sister knows the guy is married and even knows his
wife! Oh my! ***NEWSFLASH!*** The married guy also knows that he is
married AND he knows his wife!
Mind your business, mind your business
mind your business! If it ain't your business then make it your business to
LEAVE OTHER PEOPLES BUSINESS ALONE.. |
