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How can I find out what he wants?
I met a man, (I’m 22, he’s 31) last summer. Since then we’ve been emailing and I visited him once. Thing is, sometimes he does not contact me for up to two months and afterwards he shows up all sweet, as if nothing happened and he still loved me.

When I went to see him, he was caring and tender to me but refused to have any conversation in terms of where our “relationship” is going. I'm confused & would like to know whether to keep the hopes up or, move on.

Answer
Let's talk about what he does not want. That would be - a relationship with you. He doesn't contact you in two months and you really think there is a chance of a relationship? Girl, I believe he means a lot to you, however, you don't mean much to him. Can't you tell? Be honest to yourself.